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Bible Verses About Anger and Conflict (KJV) + A Prayer for Self-Control
“Let every man be swift to hear, slow to speak, slow to wrath.” These 13 passages from the King James Bible deal honestly with a hot temper and hard people. They show how a soft answer turns away wrath, how to be angry and sin not, and how Jesus calls us to love even our enemies.
13 Bible verses about anger and conflict
How do I handle my temper and the people I clash with?
James 1:19-20KJV
19Wherefore, my beloved brethren, let every man be swift to hear, slow to speak, slow to wrath: 20For the wrath of man worketh not the righteousness of God.
Be quick to hear, slow to speak, slow to anger; human anger does not produce God's righteousness.Read in context →
Ephesians 4:26-27KJV
26Be ye angry, and sin not: let not the sun go down upon your wrath: 27Neither give place to the devil.
Be angry and do not sin; do not let the sun go down on your wrath.Read in context →
Proverbs 15:1KJV
1A soft answer turneth away wrath: but grievous words stir up anger.
A soft answer turns away wrath; harsh words stir up anger.Read in context →
Proverbs 14:29KJV
29He that is slow to wrath is of great understanding: but he that is hasty of spirit exalteth folly.
Whoever is slow to anger has great understanding.Read in context →
Proverbs 29:11KJV
11A fool uttereth all his mind: but a wise man keepeth it in till afterwards.
A fool gives full vent to his spirit; a wise person holds it back.Read in context →
Matthew 5:21-22KJV
21Ye have heard that it was said by them of old time, Thou shalt not kill; and whosoever shall kill shall be in danger of the judgment: 22But I say unto you, That whosoever is angry with his brother without a cause shall be in danger of the judgment: and whosoever shall say to his brother, Raca, shall be in danger of the council: but whosoever shall say, Thou fool, shall be in danger of hell fire.
Jesus traces murder back to anger and contempt in the heart.Read in context →
Matthew 5:38-48KJV
38Ye have heard that it hath been said, An eye for an eye, and a tooth for a tooth: 39But I say unto you, That ye resist not evil: but whosoever shall smite thee on thy right cheek, turn to him the other also. 40And if any man will sue thee at the law, and take away thy coat, let him have thy cloke also. 41And whosoever shall compel thee to go a mile, go with him twain. 42Give to him that asketh thee, and from him that would borrow of thee turn not thou away. 43Ye have heard that it hath been said, Thou shalt love thy neighbour, and hate thine enemy. 44But I say unto you, Love your enemies, bless them that curse you, do good to them that hate you, and pray for them which despitefully use you, and persecute you; 45That ye may be the children of your Father which is in heaven: for he maketh his sun to rise on the evil and on the good, and sendeth rain on the just and on the unjust. 46For if ye love them which love you, what reward have ye? do not even the publicans the same? 47And if ye salute your brethren only, what do ye more than others? do not even the publicans so? 48Be ye therefore perfect, even as your Father which is in heaven is perfect.
Turn the other cheek, love your enemies and pray for those who persecute you.Read in context →
Romans 12:17-21KJV
17Recompense to no man evil for evil. Provide things honest in the sight of all men. 18If it be possible, as much as lieth in you, live peaceably with all men. 19Dearly beloved, avenge not yourselves, but rather give place unto wrath: for it is written, Vengeance is mine; I will repay, saith the Lord. 20Therefore if thine enemy hunger, feed him; if he thirst, give him drink: for in so doing thou shalt heap coals of fire on his head. 21Be not overcome of evil, but overcome evil with good.
Do not avenge yourself; overcome evil with good.Read in context →
Colossians 3:8KJV
8But now ye also put off all these; anger, wrath, malice, blasphemy, filthy communication out of your mouth.
Put off anger, wrath, malice and abusive speech.Read in context →
Proverbs 19:11KJV
11The discretion of a man deferreth his anger; and it is his glory to pass over a transgression.
It is a person's glory to overlook an offence.Read in context →
Psalm 37:8KJV
8Cease from anger, and forsake wrath: fret not thyself in any wise to do evil.
Cease from anger and forsake wrath; it only leads to harm.Read in context →
Ecclesiastes 7:9KJV
9Be not hasty in thy spirit to be angry: for anger resteth in the bosom of fools.
Do not be quick in spirit to be angry; anger rests in the heart of fools.Read in context →
James 4:1-3KJV
1From whence come wars and fightings among you? come they not hence, even of your lusts that war in your members? 2Ye lust, and have not: ye kill, and desire to have, and cannot obtain: ye fight and war, yet ye have not, because ye ask not. 3Ye ask, and receive not, because ye ask amiss, that ye may consume it upon your lusts.
Quarrels come from desires that battle within you.Read in context →
A prayer for anger and conflict
Pray it slowly, in your own words if you like.
Lord, You know how quickly my temper rises and the words I wish I could take back. I confess my anger to You before it does more harm.
Make me swift to hear, slow to speak and slow to wrath. Give me a soft answer when I want to win the argument, and help me not let the sun go down on my anger.
Show me what is really underneath my anger, and heal it. Teach me to bless those who curse me and to overcome evil with good. In Jesus’ name, Amen.
What the Bible says about anger
Is anger a sin according to the Bible?
Not always. Ephesians 4:26 says, “Be ye angry, and sin not: let not the sun go down upon your wrath.” Anger at injustice can be right. It becomes sin when it is selfish, uncontrolled, or held onto, because “the wrath of man worketh not the righteousness of God” (James 1:20).
How do I control my anger biblically?
Scripture gives clear habits: listen first and speak slowly (James 1:19), answer gently (Proverbs 15:1), overlook offenses when you can (Proverbs 19:11), and put anger off like old clothes (Colossians 3:8). Above all, bring it to God in prayer before you act on it.
What causes conflict, according to the Bible?
James 4:1-3 asks where wars and fightings come from, and answers: our own desires at war within us. Many conflicts start with something we want and are not getting. Naming that desire honestly before God is often the first step toward peace.
What did Jesus teach about anger?
In Matthew 5:21-22 Jesus taught that anger toward a brother puts us in danger of judgment, taking the commandment against murder down to the heart. In Matthew 5:38-48 He goes further, calling His followers to turn the other cheek and love their enemies.
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Scripture quotations are from the King James Version (public domain).

